House Building for Rookies: III

FRIENDS! Fret no longer! I have not abandoned ship and left you to meander the tumultuous path of home building alone! We are, however, in survival mode so bear with me :)

As you can imagine, as LOT has happened since I left you  :) Let's get to it:

The basement is already proving to be a hot spot for friends/neighbors. One of the major reasons we wanted to build was for people to fill it! Notice the beams/posts. Gotta have those things sporadically to hold up the upper floor...think about that when you are thinking about your future basement and that layout. The beams/posts affect that. This is step 1 for the framing crew. 

 Next comes subfloor! Dangerous time to be bringing children (or clumsy adults) around. Also, for the first time the house seemed huge!

 WALLS! THOSE ARE WALLS! And this is where it all changed. It finally became a house (to me) that's not a legal description! :)

Trusses (the framing portion that creates the roof) are custom made off site and brought in. They are set with a crane. Fun to watch. The boys and I sat in the car munching chicken nuggets & watching the live movie! :)

 THAT IS MY HOUSE! Taking shape now, for sure. Framing is quite a process but wow! Makes a huge difference!!! After the framing is done foam board (the blue stuff) is attached to the 2x4's and then covered in Tyvek, then covered with siding. That's it....seems weird, no? Plywood is added over the trusses to create the roof. Felt is laid and then the shingles. Also got the front entry beams/gable done which is super fun! Columns come later. Such a muddy muddy mess! When the framers feel like it they come back and put in the windows and temporary exterior doors. Temp ones are used so the pretty new ones don't get banged up. Also true of the interior stair way. Right now it's a temporary staircase/railing. Better than the gaping hole that caused me GREAT anxiety with the kiddos around.

 And now let's take a tour inside and play a little game: name that space! Based on only the framing see if you can guess which spaces are which. Answers below. Please notice the puddle of water on the floor. When you don't have a roof and it rains the inside of your new house gets wet. It's a little alarming but apparently ok. Also notice the blue foam board that is now the exterior AND interior of your home. There are parts of it that are super muddy from people stepping on it and such. Apparently that's part of your house forever...not a big deal but a strange thought nonetheless. GAME ON:

 Name that space: 1 What areas do you think Zeb and Silas are "cleaning?"

 Name that space: 2 Silas (shirtless because construction workers leave A LOT of 1/2 full energy drinks around. Silas found one and dumbed it on himself) is peering out of???

 Name that space: 3 What have we here? And why the red boards? That I don't know, btw...

 Name that space: 4 Hint: it's where the "magic" happens. Or so they say...

 Name that space 5: If you can't handle the heat....

 Name that space: 6 Obviously that's the stairway....what's to the left & right?

 Name that space: 7 Who shall rest their head here?

 She's pretty. I hope she comes with the house :)

Name that space: 8 More wee ones MIGHT rest here

ROOFING!

 SIDING!

And as of tonight, the drywall is hung! Waiting for it to be mudded and taped! Before they could drywall Seth had to insulate the walls & spray foamed pipes & wires going through the attic/exterior. Plastic is stapled over the insulation and drywall over that. Can't wait to get pics -- that REALLY changed things. I can't see through my whole house anymore! We have windows and doors and hoping to wrap up siding this weekend! We also now have a driveway. A lot of stuff can go in different orders depending on who's available when (driveway/sidewalks/siding/garage door/etc.) Siding wouldn't normally be done unit later but since Seth is doing that he's already started. We will also get to work on the deck ASAP so we can get some sod down before the snow flies! 

A few product notes: 
-WINDOWS: we went with Pella windows and Seth does use Pella for most of his jobs. He's not opposed to other brands, but does believe Pella is quality product with lots of options. 
-SIDING: for our sliding door we opted to have blinds IN the widows because let's face it: vertical blinds are a HUGE pain and I HATE curtain shopping. Easy peasy. Another product Seth HIGHLY recommends: Hardi siding. Cement board siding: maintenance free/durable! We opted for a pre finished product because "ain't no body got time to paint" :) haha. But in the end we did discover it ended up being a few hundred $ cheaper to go that route. Something to consider. 
-EGRESS WINDOWS: we did the metal window wells but had we known the cost we would have done poured. I do hate those corrugated metal window wells. Ah well....I won't look.

And now...the moment you've all been waiting for: ANSWERS!!!
Name that space: 
1. Zeb is standing in the living room & Silas is cleaning the dinning area.
2. Silas is standing in the pantry in the kitchen. To the left is the master bed/bath/closet area.
3. Mud room. Entry from garage on the left side. Washer and dryer will be on one side of the window and sink/cabinets/lockers on the other side.
4. Master bedroom!
5. Kitchen! Pantry on the right, bar/island thing straight ahead. Dinning area beyond that.
6. Front entry to the left of the stairs, closet to the right and kids wing (bedrooms/bathroom) after that.
7. Grace's room/big closet!
8. Boys' room!

Oh you guys, you're fun :) I'll try to update again after this weekend so they don't get so long next time! :)

House Building for Rookies: Part II

We officially broke ground on July 31st, 2014. This is what breaking ground looks like. I was pretty disappointed when I found out there are no gold shovels and photographers involved.

So they dig and make a giant hole in which your new house will fit.

It's everything I dreamed of and more :) Next they pour the footings. You know...footings. No idea what that means except they are made out of cement and look like this...

I thought about going around with a tape measure to make sure the poured them all right because if those footings are wrong...the whole house is wrong. Seth informed me that wasn't necessary. He'll be sorry if our house ends up smaller (or bigger).  Those big...things standing up there would be the forms they will next set to pour the foundation walls into. I didn't see them go up or come down, but seems like quite a system they have. Once that's done you have a basement and can really start to envision what the house will look like. Naturally, it has to be sprayed with some sort of tar concoction...I assume that is related to water? Maybe I should update these things when Seth is awake to explain stuff to me? Nah...I mean this is supposed to be a rookie's prospective... Rock is dumped (via a cool machine thing) around the outside of the house (for drainage) and in/on the basement floor.

I will say that at this point, I freaked out because the house seems so small....I'm looking from wall to wall thinking of everything that has to fit, but Seth assured me it will be ok. We'll see Seth...we'll see. Seth and his dad spent a weekend in the muddy trenches to put foam board around the outside of the foundation. Next the plumbing had to be 'roughed in' which basically involved PVC pipes in the basement. Just this past Monday the basement floor concrete was poured and the garage was prepped for concrete. They should be doing the backfilling tomorrow and then maybe we can stand closer to the house :) Framing is SUPPOSED to start Monday so pray for no rain and timely contractors!

In between we've been keeping these cuties alive

and making tons of decisions. Here's a sneak peak at what may or may not appear in the new house:

Hoping for exciting updates next week with framing and such! Stay tuned for more sneak peeks...

House Building for Rookies

We're about to start building a new house. In order to document the journey, provide some insight, tips, etc. and to keep the nosy people out there informed, we'll be keeping a blog as we go along. Let's DIG in! Get it. Dig!?! HAHAHAHA! :) You're in for a treat!

So, as you can imagine MUCH goes into house building before any building takes place. First of all you've got to decide if you want 2 story or ranch and how many bedrooms/bathrooms you want where. We knew we wanted a ranch since that's what we had lived in for the last 7 years and loved it. [[Helpful hint: 2 story houses are cheaper to build because there is less foundation and roofing, which are the spendy parts of the house.]] We knew we wanted 3 bedrooms on the main floor and at least 2 bathrooms, ideally a 1/2 bath for guests. We wanted a split plan so the kids bedrooms were on one end of the house and ours was on the other. You can then start searching till your eyes pop out of your head. We have literally spent years combing house plan after house plan. You've got to find one that is close to want you want and your builder can make changes and re draw it to your liking.

Things to look for/my advice:
-Avoid a front entry that opens right into the living room. Even a tiny foyer makes a big difference. Our last house opened right into the living room -- hated it.
-Watch closet space. I kept looking at plans thinking "where on earth will I store my vacuum?" Things like that can be easy to overlook, but you're going to want and need plenty of storage.
-Bedroom sizes/number--I was surprised by the sizes of most bedrooms in the plans I saw. The kids' bedrooms at our other house were so tiny we were looking forward to having bigger bedrooms for them. We also knew the boys where going to share: which seems to surprise people. They are 19 months apart...why would they need their own room? Plus, the square footage that each kid having their own room would create would pretty much deplete any other living space. So, we ended up finding a plan that would allow us to add some extra space onto the bedrooms. 
-Sinks: I know the whole 2 sink thing is a huge deal right now and that was originally in our plan for the kids bathroom. I couldn't imagine 2 (or more) of our kids using an actual sink at the same time. So we opted for 1 sink and more counter & closet space. In the master we did do 2 separate vanities...but that's just so I can prove that Seth is the messier one :) Anyway, something to consider...just because it seems to be the thing to do doesn't mean it's what'll work best for your family.
-Best use of space: our original plan had a fairly large covered patio on the end of the living rom. Being that space still required foundation and roof...seemed like a waste. So we enclosed it to be part of the house which made the living room very long but we then added in some custom shelving & columns so it should work out nicely. And we'll still have a deck so I'm good with that. 
-We were also a little concerned the dinning room might be tight so we bumped it out into a bay window shape to give a little more room. Cheap fix. 

We knew early on we loved the craftsman look and ran with that. Thanks to Pinterest & Houzz we've gotten so many ideas! Truth be told: we have a friend who was/is an interior decorator & she is amazing. We give her our general ideas, she narrows things down, approves/disapproves, gives new ideas, etc. and has made decision making SOOO easy for us. We've got everything picked out already except 2 lights and 3 ceiling fans. Even furniture! Not bad, eh? It has been a lot of fun for us. We don't argue about anything--we each kind of have a couple areas we are passionate about being a certain way and we respect that. I also respect that this is Seth's area of expertise and I let him do his thing. Despite popular belief, there are a lot of things I just don't get too worked up about. Paint colors, flooring, etc...I don't like certain things and beyond that -- I'm pretty flexible. 

So...here's a glimpse and what (we hope) the house will look like :) Keep posted to see the end result...

Say whaaa???

Yes, it's true. I am 20 weeks pregnant. Yes, we were advised by professionals to not try again, yes we were trying to prevent it, yes, SOMEONE else had another plan...

We sold all (most) of our baby stuff at a garage sale in May (clothes, stroller, car seats, bottles, etc.) In June, we moved from a mini van to an SUV crossover--all the while knowing we'd love more kids but knowing IF and when another option came up it would be several years. HAHAHAHA says God.

I felt pretty sick the whole month of August and when I went to the dr. they ran some lab tests on hormone levels and what not. She wanted to give me a shot but said we had to make 100% sure I wasn't pregnant. I assured her I wasn't but she said to wait 2 weeks, take a test and then we could proceed with the shot. I bought a 3 pack of tests on the way home and the next day decided I might as well take one. I didn't think anything of it but as I washed my hands I glanced down at the test and saw it. That second pink line. It was definately a double take moment followed by, "OH S**T!" and "What are we gonna do?" and "Why?" and then the hysteria. We got into the perinatal center right away and Dr. Mandsaager (who is probably the most serious & intimidating person I've ever met) reminded us of the dangers, promised to do all they/we could to make this one different and said he would want to deliver at 28 weeks to prevent any sort of tragedy. He said at 28 weeks there is a 90-95% survival rate with no complications (obviously the baby would be in the NICU for quite sometime) but those odds are far better than what the past has shown us if the baby sticks with  me. His main concern was another abruption because even if I was being monitored in the hospital and the placenta abrupted there is a very good chance they wouldn't be able to save the baby.

Soooo...I am 20 weeks and going strong. Everything looks great so far, baby measures on track, blood pressure has been stable, etc. I have been pretty sick the whole time and SUPER SUPER DUPER nervous. That's why we have waited to tell people but are ready now to beg and plead for your earnest and fervent prayers! This has already been an incredibly difficult journey. Trying to find a balance between guarding our hearts and finding hope. We KNOW God is capable of amazing and wonderful things (we have 2 miracles to remind us everyday). But we also know the deep pain that comes when you live in a fallen world. We know God can knit this baby to a healthy, LIVING 28 week angel and we pray He will. Until then, we are clinging to and living on the prayers of family and friends. PLEASE, join us!

January 17th will be 28 weeks....less than 2 months. But as we know, A LOT can happen in that time. Pray for our hearts, pray we can cling to hope, and that the peace of God would fill us. Pray that God knits the precious one together to be healthy, pray for our plans, pray for our arrangements with a baby in the NICU for several weeks and 2 at home. Just pray...we are weary and in need of our fellow believers to carry us through!

Thank you so much!

Ask and you shall recieve...

Well the requests have been flooding in for a Lorntson family blog and I'm happy to report that I'm here to make all your dreams come true!

I was on a blogging hiatus for quite sometime because I didn't want to write another negative post, so I thought I'd wait until I had something positive to say. Buuuuuttt...I got nothing.

So we are back in our "old house" now and are happy to be home. We were HOPING to start remodeling this month, however, as hope would have it in our case...it's not going to happen. Through a series of stupid & unnecessary circumstances we can not do work on the house until (hopefully) spring. Yet another jab in our still bleeding wounds. And here comes the drama....I don't even care so much about not being able to work on the house, I don't really care about the THINGS we have lost this year or the THINGS that haven't gone our way. It's more the constant stream of things not working out that has gotten me down. I'd confidently say that this has been the worst 10 months of my life (Seth feels the same). From Zion to houses/moving to applying for insurance to refinancing our house to switching cell phone companies...EVERYTHING has been negative and complicated. I don't want to answer my phone or check my email because I feel like there will be another bout of negativity looming, another rejection or complicated version of what we hoped would happen. Again, it's not the things that have me down - we have a house, cars, AMAZING family and friends, a successful business, a miracle daughter and anyTHING we could probably want...but you can only be knocked down so many times before you just can't get up anymore. I'm a fighter and I don't have the energy to fight anymore. I feel like God pushed us into a big hole. Sometimes he comes to check on us, throws us a rope and just when we get so close to reach it, He pulls it back and walks away. ***Nobody panic here and put your sermons away, I KNOW that isn't the way God works but MAN! We were trying to be so diligent in letting God be in charge of our lives. Welp, that led us down a series of failed endeavors. But, hey! Tomorrow is a new day and we know God is capable of miracles...however, I'm not asking for one cause...well...I can't handle more dissapointment right now.

Poor us I know, right? :) Let's move on to the more upbeat part of the blog, eh?

Here are my latest qualms with life:

#1. I am again going to bring up rug pads. My bathroom rugs are sliding all over the place and it is rather frustrating. I don't understand why they don't make rugs with the rug pad already attached. I mean, who WANTS their rug to move all over!?!?

#2. I am going to pull out my liberal card with a shocking proposal. I am suggesting we ban thank you notes. Think about the times in life you have to write thank you's. Graduation, wedding, babies...all times in your life where you do NOT have time to write hundreds of half (if that) hearted, cliche messages to people, knowing that they will open it, read it and toss it in the trash. Waste of time and money if you ask me. If you give someone a gift don't you assume they are going to be thankful? If you don't think someone would be thankful then don't get them a gift! A simple text message or phone call with a "Hey! Thanks for thinking of me." Would more than suffice for me. Who's with me!??!!?!

#3. You know those word verification boxes you have to type in when you log on to your prison email? No? Oh, well they also have them for purchasing concert tickets or various things. It's supposedly for secreity reasons...is that because criminals can't see real good? ;) I don't understand how that helps...enlighten me.

#4. I suggest watching America's Got Talent. Good, clean, harmless laughs and it makes for great conversation. I would not recommend the Bachelorette (though I do watch it).

#5. Flip flops for kids under the age of 10 should not be allowed. They do NO good. They cause more spills, scraped knees, fits at the park because there are "rocks in my shoes!" blisters between toes that cause infection/blood poisoning. Bleh! Save the drama. I would recommend Crocs. Easy to put on, can get wet, easy to clean, closed toe to save on tripping, comfortable, affordable, cute (some of them:). Can't go wrong.

Moving on to "highlights of life with my 3 year old daughter" portion:

*Today was the day. Grace pulled out the, "You're not my mommy!" card. Just the beginning of 1,000's more to come I'm sure. I'm SOOO looking forward to her teen years!
*The other night Grace yells from her bed, "Mom! I want a customer to come sleep with me." Again, looking forward to the teen years.
*I may have cried a time or two in the last week. Both times Grace caught me, climbed up to my face, started me down, started stroking my hair saying, "Shh...don't cry mommy. It's OK. Don't need to cry." Once she sang, "Don't cry in your bed. Don't be sad, in your bed." Though my favorite was, "It's ok mommy! You can just get up and play with me!"

*She has also been sharing a story about a time her and I went to the forest and saw a bunny.

*Whenever she does something she's not supposed to do she tilts her head to the side, looks at me and says, "That's alright mommy. That's alright I do that."

*Grace started a 2 week session of dance classes yesterday, swimming lessons next month and soccer camp in August. Yes, she has more of a life than I ever did.

Oh golly, I'm sure there are tons more things but it is 2:44am and I may have to resort to Ambien CR for some sleep tonight. And now that you've gotten to read a blog from the Lorntson's you can sleep easy too!

God Speed (what does that mean, btw?)

When the family is away...

...I will find time to blog...

Indeed, it has been quite a while since the last blog and, as you can imagine, a lot has happened. Please, allow me to enlighten you.

Seth and Grace (along with Sissy, Jack and Brooklyn) are visiting great grandpa in MN. I, of course, stayed home in case the baby decided to arrive. After a month of watching two additional 3yr old girls...I was much looking forward to the "break." The silence has been amazing and the house is sparkling clean! Laundry caught up, errands ran, nap taken, mani/pedi tomorrow...yep, it's been a treat. However, I am REALLY ready for them to be back now!!!

So yes, I watched two girls this past month while their parents finished up their school year. 3, 3 year old girls = well...a lot of things. LOTS of laughs, lots of milk, cat fights, LOTS of questions, Princess dresses and dolls galore and one tired Sonya! It really was tiring but I enjoyed it. The girls made me laugh a TON and Grace loved having someone her age to play with. Katie and Lauren will be coming back in the fall when school starts again too!

Seth has been busy lining up summer projects and trying to figure out how to balance work and his demanding wife :) He does a great job...he's quite the guy! And I'm telling you...he's getting funnier and funnier!

So, we moved. Again. Basically our house was not selling and the owners of the home we were hoping to buy started feeling the heat of having to close the deal. So, we decided to move back to our "old" house which is about to become our "new and improved" house. At first we were both really upset and just felt lke another dissapointment had found its way into our lives. But once we got back into our "old" house, it felt like home (at least I thought so...Seth is still working on it). We are settled in and ready for this new baby to come along. We've decided to make this house work and therefore, we are going to be doing some remodeling/adding on. The plans are all underway, we hit the bank Thursday and start knockin down some walls Friday. That's my plan...Seth says that is not the correct order of events for such project. I will post pics periodically to monitor the progress of "Operation Old House Transformation" (OOHT) for your viewing pleasure.

So...Grace...Yes, THIS Grace-------> turns THREE on Friday! THREE!?!?! Are you kidding me?!?! I can NOT believe the time has gone this fast and with each day she becomes more and more of a blessing. I am so unbelievably proud to be her mommy! She also says that I'm her best friend and I always will be. She also wants to marry me though...or Jesus. I can see how that would be a tough choice :) Grace has been very clear for a couple months now that for her birthday she would like a Princess scooter, a helmet and a Princess horn (easy enough). She also shared she wanted to have a purple party with purple polka dots. Well, someone at Hobby Lobby heard her cause they were all set with purple polka dot paper plates and napkins :) Along with the fact that her gamma/Oma will be here...she is pretty darn excited about this gig! She also knows that after her birthday she gets a baby brother AND she gets to do a dance class. What a life, eh? Oh Grace, the light of my life!

Baby....baby? Baby! Haven't heard much from Jennifer lately. She is waiting to be transferred to Oakdale so that when she goes into labor she can go to U of I hospitals. She isn't thrilled about being there, apparently there is less freedom. She says she has made is clear to the baby that they aren't to be there long :) When we last visited her (a week ago) she had just seen the dr. and he said he didn't think it would be much longer. So...I'm very patiently waiting :) But, since it's 2:14am...the honesty is pouring out and...I gotta say...I've been struggling. I go back and forth between moments of sheer thrill and excitement to crying my eyes out trying to fight a feeling that it's all going to go terribly wrong. I'm struggling with prayer...I feel like I don't know how to talk to God anymore....like if I ask for something it will be taken away, if I say something, the opposite will happen. I love God with all my heart and trust Him as my Lord and Savior...but (much like in marriage) I'm struggling with how to communicate with Him right now. I've been panicking for most of the night tonight assuming something is going to go wrong and that we are going to lose another baby. Everyone says/assumes/thinks "Oh! It'll be just fine! I know it! God wouldn't do that to you." But He might...God is God and he can do whatever He wants. He allows things to happen...ugly things, horrible things. And thanks to sin the in the world there is no bounds to what might be allowed to happen...in which case I guess we can only find peace in the promise that God will bring us through. Anyway, I know...I know...I'm being negative. But this past year it seems that being positive has only led to disappointment and heartache. It's easier this way. I don't know what tomorrow holds. Maybe I'm tired and missing my family. Maybe I'm realistic. Maybe I'm crazy. But...I am tired. So that is my update for today...hopefully next time we'll be talking about the new baby :)

Heaven is for REAL!

As confirmed by 4 year old Colton Burpo in the book called, "Heaven is for Real." Which I would STRONGLY recommend for ANYONE to read! It's cute, uplifting and makes you think! Colton had a life threatening experience and "died" for 3 minutes and over the course of a year or so he describes different events to his parents, who had no idea what happened until they were able to piece his stories together. Precious! Read it! Available at Wal Mart...

Now, I'd much rather picture heaven than real life these days. With so much going on, so much that is NOT in our control...sometimes I just feel like I can't go on. We run 100 steps forward then everything comes to a sudden halt and where we thought God was leading, we start to question. No, don't be alarmed we are still on track for the adoption and foster parent classes, but this house business is getting a little out of hand. Money is getting really tight and without selling our house we can't close on the "new house" and therefore can't pull money out to put in the kitchen or finish the basement...and with the baby coming we've got to get that done. Of course, we knew all this could very well happen and we took the risk willingly...the frustrating part is just that with every single step we were diligent in prayer and waited for God to open a door before going through it. I'm sure there are lessons to learn about trusting God to provide, taking leaps of faith and being patient to the end, etc. But...in the meantime...I just cry a lot and fill my time with crap like the Bachelor to keep my mind occupied. Please, please, please as your begging friend and sister in Christ...PRAY our house sells ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But life goes on and God does provide...sometimes in unbelievable ways. The past few weeks has been a surreal series of events that again prove that there sure is a God and He sure is good! A couple weeks ago we were in MN with our families when we got that call that in fact, Jennifer was going to have...A BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Will we finally get our precious earthly son? Stay tuned to find out :) After talking on the phone several times we went to Mitchellville on Sunday to visit Jennifer. Now that was an experience. As we pulled in the parking lot and approached the security building a panic attacked formed in my throat and then a variety of emotions flooded...from laughing to crying to being scared, etc. And that was before we even met Jennifer. We walked into the visiting building and saw a room filled with tables, each with an inmate, other family members and children EVERYWHERE. And that's when the tears came. all these children...visiting their mother...in prison. Made me sad. Grace immediately scampered off to the toys. She found a bucket of blocks and sat down at a table with an inmate and her family. Which I didn't mind at all...except that maybe she was a little TOO comfortable in prison :) Anyway, we met Jennifer and I can't say enough good things about her. I sit there talking to her and can't help but wonder what happened...why she was here. She seems so down to earth, sarcastic, intelligent, etc. She refers to the baby as ours and calls him by the name we said we'd picked for him (which you will know in June:) She walks around with our picture saying, "This is the baby's parents!" When we ask her what she wants to happen after the baby is born she says, "It's your baby! Whatever you guys want! I"m just carrying him." She talks about mistakes she's made and is very aware that she is where she needs to be. She talks about her relationship with the Lord and just beams from ear to ear talking about how excited she is to be able to give us this gift. She sends us cards a couple times a week and sent Grace a special princess card. Again, it's all very surreal...God's fingerprints are all over this and I, for one, can't wait to see how it all pans out. Cautious optimism is our new motto in life. We are certainly excited about this, but aren't jumping to put a crib up! Of course we ask for continual pray that the pregnancy would remain healthy and everything would go smoothly!

That's about all the energy I can muster up for the day...

God bless you, one and all :)

Grace-isms for the week/weeks:
*I laid in her twin bed, 1/2 covered with stuffed animals 1/2 covered with her and me teetering on the edge. Grace grabs my arm and says, "Don't worry mom. I won't let you fall."

*Since her and Seth went to the father/daughter dance at our church one of her favorite past times is putting on a dress and saying, "Dance with me daddy!"

*(GRAPHIC NATURE) Grace points to her Barbie's chest and says in a whisper, "Mommy, what's these? What's these." I said, "Grace you know what that is and it's inappropriate to talk about. You can talk about it with mommy and that is all." Grace: "They're boobs mommy! (hehe) Girls have boobs! (hehe)"

*I've tried to teach her about seasons and we talk about how it rains a lot in spring. We haven't talked about it in quite sometime but today it was rainning and Grace starts yelling, "It's spring mom! It's spring!"

Also...I am PRETTY sure my life would be much easier if she wasn't soooo darn cute. Right? :)